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my first realization
As a 14 year old boy, I was the classic adolescent; playing sports for my junior high and chasing girls. One day during track practice, I was talking to a teammate in the gym. There was a particularly small, slender, pale white boy trying to become a pole vaulter. The team’s best pole vaulter was a ... Read full Story
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Stepping Out
All through the next week we searched through almost all the online dating sites and it was the same as before. Some wanted just me or just Deena, but not the both of us together. One good result was that I found a trans gender support group and they were going to meet on the next Tuesday which was ... Read full Story
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My first experience with a tranny
ENGLISH: I want to tell you about my first sexual experience with a transsexual in 2018. I was a bit drunk and got horny, I searched the internet and found a brunette tranny with 7 inches of cock, wavy hair, young and attractive. She had an HIV negative health card. We went to the motel and I was... Read full Story
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Alex pt.2
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A Perfect Pandemic: A Transsexual Transition in a Troubled Time
A Perfect Pandemic A Transsexual Transition in a Troubled Time A Novelette by Alexandra Rios Text Copyright Reserved © August, 2021 Dedication Transgender Day of Remembrance is a solemn occasion. I am offering “A Perfect Pandemic” for free as an antidote to the fear, phobia, discrimination, d... Read full Story
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Did I Do Right By Taking Money For Sex?
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Sex With Not Just 1, But 3 Females
When I was 18 years old, I was still occasionally going to the Highbridge toilets in Lincoln on a Saturday and getting paid for having sex with guys be it sucking cocks or being sucked off, dirty chats, wanking them off or giving or taking anally. I never turned down any form of payment, money or... Read full Story
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Sissy Femboy Chrissy in Drag at the Club
"Can you wear a dress tonight?" "I can't crossdress in public, I'm not 'out' and don't want to be seen that way." "That's okay. We're going to a gay-only club that has a drag queen show tonight, so you'd fit right in." "Cool, but I'll have to change when we get there." "Awesome! See you tonight!... Read full Story
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My name is Mike, as a "Gurl" I go by Fiona. I am a gay man, mid thrities, white, 5' 9' 165, reasonably handsome, both in and out of women's clothes. One of the ways I express my sexuality is to dress as a woman and get fucked by other men. Preferably in a humiliati... Read full Story
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Wie sich schlagartig mein Sex Leben änderte... Teil 1
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LE PROGRAMME D'ÉCHANGE SISSY ⚧️ ⚧️
Kristy a travaillé pour Le Matriarcat. Cela semblait plus officiel que ça ne l'était vraiment. Comme si c'était un "Nouvel Ordre Mondial". C'était en fait un club dirigé par des femmes spécialisées dans certains services que les hommes paient grassement. Cela pourrait être appelé prostitution selon ... Read full Story
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My Gangbang
It was junior year of highschool. There was this one girl who I liked but was too afraid to do anything about it. Her name was Jessica. I thought she was too "cool" for me. She always hung out in a group of 3 other girls. She was short, about 5'2, her body was alittle plump, not too fat, b... Read full Story
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Sensual Ebony - Sexy Transsexual Escort…
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DISCOVERING BLACK COCK
To the greater Boston general public it was simply a small little known quite private night club located in the back part of Roxbury called The Black Rooster Bar. While in local Gay Community circles, insiders called this private by membership only pub, THE BLACK COCK CASTLE! When first learning... Read full Story
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HELPLESS TO MY CRAVING FOR BLACK COCK
This is a totally true account of my addiction to meth and its hand in turning me into the he[pless sissy I've become to my weakness for BBC. My name as a regular male is Richie Budd. But by reading this you'll soon realize that nothing is normal. Not only was I Richard Budd. I spent an equal, if ... Read full Story
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SOUS LA DIRECTION DE MAMAN ⚧️ ⚧️
Jaime n'avait jamais eu beaucoup de chance avec les filles au lycée. C'était venu et reparti, et maintenant il profitait d'un dernier été avant de partir à l'université avec sa virginité intacte. Ce n'était pas vraiment sa faute, il n'était pas un salaud ou un douchebag, c... Read full Story
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Shemale Gangbang
I am not your average female. But I guess I am not your average male either. You see, I am a tranny. I make a really hot woman. I am 5'10", am slim and have dark, wavy hair that comes down to tight between my shoulder blades. The only thing I was missing was beautiful tits. So I got those as we... Read full Story
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I've always considered myself as a huge fan of heshe cum & porn vids. You tell me what else a man needs besides a tgirl's cock, a nice portion of shemales fucking and sucking & loads of transgender stories to tell the guys... Forget about the usual trans sexual pictures & pre-op transsex... Read full Story
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Ginger's First Gangbang
I had been enjoying regular meetings with my older lover, Mr Webster, for some time and the routine typically consisted of meeting up and heading off in his car for sex at some secluded spot in the countryside. He liked me to dress as femininely as possible, in pretty dresses, skirts and heels and a... Read full Story
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FILLE DE RÊVE ⚧️ ⚧️
« Alors, à quoi ressemblerait ta petite amie parfaite ? » « Toi », pensa Steph, regardant dans les yeux noisette avec des reflets dorés à l'intérieur. Il lui fallut quelques secondes pour se rendre compte qu'il devait répondre avec sa bouche. « Oh, euh… quelqu'un d'attentionné je suppose ? ... Read full Story
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Vanessa and the workmen gangbang
The three workmen were slaving away in the back garden, in the hot sun. Vanessa watched them from the upstairs bedroom window, getting more excited by the second. Under her robe she was wearing a beautiful red basque with a red g-string, black stockings and five inch heels. This was topped off with ... Read full Story
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16 ladyboys jerked off in front of me! live!
Just got back from Thailand and had a very special birthday present. A big party had been arranged for me at my favorite ladyboy bar and a “competition” had been secretly arranged for me. Had a nice party with balloons, food, drinks etc then a midnight I was told that it was now time ... Read full Story
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MY Party Favor Fantasy
My Party Favor Fantasy A fictional story built around an old fantasy of mine I ran a notice on one of those sex sites that said” Help me fulfill my fantasy and I bet we take care of some of yours also. Hi there, I am Penny and I am a total bottom trans w... Read full Story
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Sissy Maddie's New Apartment Gangbang
I’d just moved into the big city. Me on my own in a cheap apartment block. The flat was nothing special by any means, and the room next to mine seemed to be noisy with parties. But I was glad to be on my own. I had almost finished unpacking my belongings when I came across my stash of female clothi... Read full Story
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champignons sous toutes ses formes et façons
La saison des champignons est ouverte! Miam... J'adore les champignons, sous toutes ses formes et façons. Nous sommes une quinzaine d'amateurs qui se retrouvent uniquement à l'occasion des ceuillettes de champignons sans aucun autre rassemblement amical! Pour cette dernière sortie de la saison,... Read full Story
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The journey down the Rabbit Hole...
Nearly 30 years, living a double life. Sneaking around on two Xwives, several girlfriends, all to play with men.Play,and play and play. Responding to personal adds in the paper at first, then I found the Bath House. Wow, to a closeted homophobic acting oilfield lifestyle kind of guy, who could hide ... Read full Story
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My desire continues after Greg's departure
After Greg,my first black lover,moved away,I THOUGHT that my "experiment" was a passing one. Was I ever wrong. I'd be in bed holding the recent centerfold up with one hand and my other stroking away,yet,when orgasm neared,my thoughts invariably turned to Greg and specifically,his big bl... Read full Story
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Purple Kiss, part 3
Continued... As I reached out for Tiffany's hand, she snagged the towel I had wrapped around my waist and threw it to the floor, “no need for that, cumslut.” The group of women surrounding the doorway applauded once again then dispersed. Most of the women headed downstairs, but Janet, Kimb... Read full Story
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Erotic website remake of the little Rascals short film remake of Beginners Luck. The audience is laughing hysterically at Spanky attempts to open his stuck helmet. Spankys mother, a blonde beauty peeks out at the audience from the stage wing, as the crowd’s loud laughter, nervously biting her finge... Read full Story
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Passion in the Rough
Tonight, I was searching in vain for a parking place close to the club, but unfortunately, I had arrived late and there were no empty spaces close by. I drove around and went down several streets in the same block until I found an empty spot. That was perfect I thought as I found a parking place and... Read full Story
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Rassemblement d'alumni pas comme les autres;
Un rassemblement d'alumni pas comme les autres; 'Mer/Sable/Soleil' et pourquoi pas 'Sex' dans un club de vancance; nous nous sommes rassemblés pour fêter les 40 ans de notre 1ère rencontre en fac. La seule règle était de venir sans compagne pour revivre nos jours de 'frosh'. avec les ca... Read full Story
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The Ebony TS of my dreams
This story is about one of the most memorable piece of cocks I've ever experienced in my 30 plus years of getting fucking. I just thought I'd write it down and share it simply because I'll never forget it and because I'm a married man and it most likely will never happen again. It happened about ... Read full Story
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RÉVEIL SEXUEL SISSY ⚧️ ⚧️
Si ses histoires étaient vraies, non seulement beaucoup d'hommes ont eu des réveils sexuels entre la fin de la trentaine et le début de la cinquantaine, mais beaucoup d'hommes de mon âge étaient curieux de se féminiser, de sucer des bites et peut-être même d'avoir des fesses. Mais je ne peux pas ... Read full Story
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Singapore tranny sex
My ship was dry-docked in Singapore for 3 weeks, n i was lucky enough to meet a gr8 girl first nite ashore, Lin, half chinese/ half malay, n fucking sexy. I slept at her flat most nites and the sex was awsome. She shared with a girl called Meena, a hostess on Singapore Airlines, but until this speci... Read full Story
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Big Surpise In Small Package
It was a Friday night and I was extremely horny and just my luck my girlfriend was out of town, but I wasn't horny for her I was craving cock. I knew I was bi for a long time and loved to have a nice hard cock to play with every once in awhile. So I decide to call my girlfriend to tell her I was goi... Read full Story
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Lustful Crossdresser by CDlishmis
As I think about the way I feel when I dress in women’s clothes. I become agitated with myself. I can’t stop. I couldn’t stop even if I wanted to, it is an addiction. The physi cal and mental transformation that I go through is ex... Read full Story
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James's Cum Slut Part 4; Back to Boarding School
It was back to school time and I was back in the boarding house with James. We hadn’t seen each other all summer and were eager to relight the fire. But it was going to be hard. While we shared a dorm together, it would be hard maintaining the privacy. We had both packed items from my secondary ward... Read full Story
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Liberty in Lisbon Part 1
My wife and I started to plan early retirement. We planned to take trips and live in various parts of the world for a few months here and there. Of course enjoy the grand kids more. Then my world changed. All plans out the window. I was suddenly by myself. The thing I wanted to get away from most, m... Read full Story
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Last night I drank my own cum
Once upon a time... There was a regular boy, who was always fascinated by women, but one day (casually) discovered the dirty and horny world of the "third way" of sex, the fantastic shemale-ladyboy-tranny universe, and it was like a shock for him, a very sweet shock, he never believed o... Read full Story
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Gangbang: Daddy's Girl
"Oh yeah...that's daddy's girl," my dad moaned as he massaged my enormous round sticky ass. I'm 18 and my sister was about 5 years older than me, so who knew how long this had been going on for, I thought to myself. At least I tried to think as I slowly closed my eyes and bit my bottom ... Read full Story
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Not your usual birthday present
So here we go again “Happy Birthday” to me, at 51 it’s not that great really it’s just a reminder your getting older!! Anyway here I am 51 having an absolute ball and fulfilling my wildest dreams, Justina likes being out of the closest and loooooves cock.. So for her birthday she hopes someone has ... Read full Story
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Used in a hotel room
This is a recurring fantasy I have about being used in a hotel room. I’m working on making this a reality but for now this will have to do. I travel a lot for work and end up in many cities across the world. Usually I am out and exploring bars and restaurants. Always ends with me jerking off alo... Read full Story
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Crossdressing at CCBC in Palm Springs
I recently stayed at CCBC in Palm Springs. For those of you who are not aware of it, it is the largest gay resort in Palm Springs area. The resort has about 30 rooms, lockers, a pool, steam room and indoor and outdoor play areas all on a one acre outdoor enclave. I arrived there on a Tuesday and dre... Read full Story
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Angel The Shemale Vampire
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Wrong Vampire
I consider myself a fairly tolerant person. I judge each person on their merits, not their skin color, gender or even sexual orientation. I'm even in favor of the Vampire Rights Amendment, but I must admit, unlike other groups people discriminate against, they make me uneasy. They claim that all the... Read full Story
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MY TS FOXXY & VENUS LUX FANTASY
Alyssa Gomez and Venus Lux were visiting Newark, NJ and decided to have lunch in the restaurant that I work in. It was a rainy day. The seductive pair were returning back to their suite in the Courtyard Marriott, but not before grabbing a bite to eat. Alyssa and Venus sat the bar and ordered a coupl... Read full Story
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Jan and I have been together now about 4 years but known each other since High School. We are both in our early fifties. We had met a transgendered girl (Gabby) about a year ago and we get together about once a month and enjoy each other’s company, going out playing and having intimacy together. Gab... Read full Story
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Ladyboy orgy in Thailand
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A walk in the woods...
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